You know it doesn't matter if you're a SAH, WAH or working outside of the home, families are very busy these days. For example, my husband works two jobs, I work at home, homeschool and am the Home CEO. Our teenage son keeps us busy with his volunteer work, sports, schooling and his friends. We also have our own interests and friends. It doesn't leave much time for us.
My husband and I actually schedule most of our time together. Whether it's meeting for lunch, taking a walk at the beach or just jumping in the shower together, it feels great! We enjoy surprising each other too. Once, my husband greeted me with tickets to a morning harbor cruise and lunch. I love surprising him with his favorite lunch, at work. Our relationship is important to us. Don't forget that your children will see this too.
For some ideas, take a look at Bob and Sheri Sritof, Marriage About.com Guides,
'How to Have Quality Time'. Start with one of their suggestions or come up with your own. Then set some time aside and enjoy.