Friday, December 31, 2010

20 New Year Reflections - My Responses!


1. What was the single best thing that happened this past year? Being committed to a mental hospital after a suicide attempt. It truly was a humbling experience. The doctors were able to find the right combination of anti-depression medication. I also discovered the pleasures of sleep! The first night home I sleep for 13 hours!

2. What was the single most challenging thing that happened? Learning to like the new calm, not depressed, not anxious Rona. It was difficult as I had to relearn how to carry daily duties, relationships and work as a mellow person. I now embrace this new me.

3. What was an unexpected joy this past year? Kiana, our "adopted" teen daughter, coming into our lives! Her mother kicked her out, she's a friend of our son and needed a place to live. Charles and I gave her a room, bought a bed, bedding, clothes, ect. We also gave her displine and love. Everyday is truly a blessing. Thank you Heavenly Father.

4. What was an unexpected obstacle? My husband's second lay off after just 4 months of working. The money was fantastic and for the first time we were really able to have breathing room.

5. Pick three words to describe 2010. hectic, surprising, fun

6. Pick three words your spouse would use to describe your 2010 (don’t ask them; guess based on how you think your spouse sees you). loving, tired, nurturing

7. Pick three words your spouse would use to describe their 2010 (again, without asking). disappointing, challenging, exhausting8. What were the best books you read this year? A Short Guide to a Happy Life by Anna Quindlen is a terrific read. Our son received as a high school graduation gift. One day I wasn't feeling well and thought I would give it a try. "Living your life deeply is the best gift God has given us". I loved it!

9. With whom were your most valuable relationships? Kiana, Marcus, Charles and the Heavenly Father

10. What was your biggest personal change from January to December of this past year? Dealing with my husband's second layoff after just 4 months of working a full time living wage job. Then our teenage son was laid off from his part time job. That left just my income which isn't much. I found myself angry, confused and drained. I really need to focus on my relationship with the Heavenly Father to resolve my feelings.

11. In what way(s) did you grow emotionally? After finding the right anti-depression medication I found I wasn't so hard on myself and my family. I learned to really appreciate the day and whatever it brought me.

12. In what way(s) did you grow spiritually? I was truly humbled while I was in the mental hospital. I was surrounded by dangerous people, drug addicts and realized this was my moment on my knees, wearing a hospital gown with no pants and unkept hair. I gave up control and let the Heavenly Father take over. It was truly a growing spirtual experience.

13. In what way(s) did you grow physically? I started challenging myself when we moved to an apartment complex that had a gym. I do cardio and work on various weight machines. Recently I started doing situps. This is something I never thought I would do as a chronic pain sufferer.

14. In what way(s) did you grow in your relationships with others? In my professional life, I find that I don't let customer frustration affect me in a negative way. I also made an extra effort to speak with people that I deal with in my day, like cashiers, receptionist, customer service reps and let them know that their efforts are appreciated.

15. What was the most enjoyable part of your work (both professionally and at home)? Being surprised with a Christmas bonus! I was able to treat Kiana to a hair color and trim before she left for her Christmas vacation.

16. What was the most challenging part of your work (both professionally and at home)? My pain level became unmanageable which made it difficult to focus and multi-task effectively. I found I needed to take time off from work. My husband, pain management doctor and I came to the conclusion to change my pain medication.

17. What was your single biggest time waster in your life this past year? Worry, it's constructive. Turning my worries over to the Heavenly Father is always the best answer.

18. What was the best way you used your time this past year? Stopping what I was doing and joining my hubby for relaxation. In the past, I just physically 'turn myself off'.19. What was biggest thing you learned this past year?
Even in the most difficult times one does find rewards from their family. We're broke but happy!

20. Create a phrase or statement that describes 2010 for you. What an interesting rollercoaster ride!

20 New Year's Eve Reflection - inCourage


New Year's Eve Vegas Strip fireworks

Simple Mom has her 20 New Year's Eve Reflection Questions posted for you!

She even has a free PDF download of the questions.

Here's just a few of the questions:

What was the most enjoyable part of your work (both professionally and at home)?

What was the most challenging part of your work (both professionally and at home)?

What was your single biggest time waster in your life this past year?

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I just read this on my FB page and thought I would share it with you!

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Things That I Learned Thursday - December 31, 2010


Red Rock Park in Las Vegas

It's very important to listen to your body. It's really trying to tell you something. This is in response to finally changing my pain medication after 10 years.

It's great to have Kiana and Marcus home. Charles and I enjoyed our alone time but we truly missed our rugrats. Besides, I had no one to do my fist pump with!

Charles and I realized that we're part of the working poor. When you look at your pay stub and see that you didn't even break $25,000 take home it's a sobering moment.

I'm glad that the Heavenly Father saved me in April. I tried to kill myself but the Lord had a different plan for me. After a stay in a mental hospital, the right medication I'm feeling so much better! He also brought Kiana into our lives! What an awesome God!

Love your life no matter what! Yes, 2010 has been an interesting year for us. Many struggles but lots of love and faith. Happy New Year!

They're Home! Kiana and Marcus Have Returned!



My husband and I were so thrilled when we got the call that they were only 15 minutes from The Strip. And even more excited when we saw them getting out of the car!

I must have hugged Marcus 5 times outside! Kiana was torn. She was happy to be home but very sad that she was leaving her dad in Salt Lake City.

Marcus got some great news. He had to work the following day at the local recreation center.

It's great to have our kidlets back home!

Outgrowing Your Pain Medication


TENS Unit - a device that can help control severe pain.

After 10 years of taking Loritab my body has informed it no longer is enough to control my pain.

Increasing migraines, severe muscle spasms,various stress disorders and days off from work helped me make the decision to change my pain medication.

With my husband by my side, my pain management doctor gave me the options of Mophine, Methadone or Percocet. We discuss the side effects and the fact that I could only get a monthly prescription due to the DEA guidelines.

I then called my prescription plan to verify coverage and co-pays. I highly recommend that you do this before having your doctor write you a prescription!

And my decision...Percocet.

Thursday, December 30, 2010

And The Winner Is! $30 IHOP Gift Card Giveaway


Marcus and I love Dutch Babies
I've noticed that many blog giveaways use Random.com so I thought I would give it a try. Thank you to all of you that entered.

#39 Emily @JaeDee Crafts! Her favorite breakfast is a hearty breakfast burrito!

Congratulations! I hope you enjoy spending your IHOP gift card!

Tuesday, December 28, 2010

Last Call to Enter The $30 IHOP Gift Card Giveaway!



Last call to enter for a chance to win the $30 IHOP gift card. Just click here for the opportunity!

Good luck!

Great Salads at Buffalo Wild Wings Restaurant

Since the hubby works right next door to Buffalo Wild Wings he likes to surprise me with a delicious salad for lunch.

So far I've tried the Grilled Chicken Salad and Chicken Caesar Salad. Each was filling as well as delicious.

It's one of my favorite restaurants for salads.

Octomom: Octomom, Nadya Suleman, and 14 Children Face Eviction - ktla.com

Octomom: Octomom, Nadya Suleman, and 14 Children Face Eviction - ktla.com

I hope someone steps up and helps her out. I certainly don't want to see these kids become homeless.

Sunday, December 26, 2010

Deadline for End of the Year $30 IHOP Gift Card Ends On December 28!


The deadline for my End of the Year $30 IHOP gift card is coming to an end on Tuesday, December 28, 2010 at 7pm PST.

Click here to enter!

They'll Be Back on Wednesday!


Kiana, our "adopted" teen


Marcus, our teen

Charles and I missed them so much the last 2 weeks. We're looking forward to see them again.

What is Boxing Day - December 26


Boxing Day is a holiday that is celebrated in England, New Zealand, Canada and Australia, on the following Monday after Christmas.

The traditional celebration is giving money and/or donations to charities, the needy and people in service positions.

Friday, December 24, 2010

Merry Christmas From BerryMorins Bits & Tips



Our family wishes you a very blessed Merry Christmas! As Pastor Benny said today in the Christmas sermon Remember the Heavenly Father is with YOU!

Making Money Online - Today Show

Check out this online video about various ways to making money online.

You'll hear about online on call nursing advice, remote call centers, writers, providing services and lots more.

Following Friday!



Merry Christmas! ps Don't forget to leave a comment at this post for a chance to win a $30 IHOP gift card. Deadline is December 28, 2010 7pm PST!

Things I Learned This Thursday


Family Photo Collage

1. We didn't need to buy gifts for each other this year. And you know what? We don't miss them.

2. It's nice to be spending all these weeks on our own but we do miss the kids.

3. I love Swagbucks! I had enough bucks saved up that I redeemed them for a couple of gifts for Marcus and Kiana!

4. Don't forget to tip the special people in your life. "T", Kiana and I's hairstylist is so much fun and talented! I couldn't let Christmas go by without letting her know what she means to us.

5. The rainstorms that hit Las Vegas reminded me how dangerous too much rain can be. There were lots of car accidents and unfortunately a few fatalities.

Merry Christmas!

Thursday, December 23, 2010

Christmas Time is Here!

Charles is relaxing watching episodes of Detroit 187 on Hulu. I've still have 2 more hours of work and then I can join him!





When Harry Met Sally on Netflix


What's your favorite movie to watch when you need a chuckle?

When Harry Met Sally is one of my all time favorites! It's available for watch instantly on Netflix.

We Miss You Marcus and Kiana

The apartment is clean and quiet without Marcus and Kiana. It really hit me yesterday how much I miss them. Merry Christmas little ones.


Our family Christmas photo collage!


Even Teddy misses Kiana!


No dirty dishes, laptops on the dining room table.


Where's the XBox? Oh, Marcus took it with him.

One Live to Live Online Full Episodes



Kiana and I have re-discovered One Life to Live recently. It didn't take me long to get caught on the happenings.

Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Holiday Coping When You Have a Chronic Illness

Holiday Coping When You Have a Chronic Illness

Here's some tips for dealing with the busy holiday season for those dealing with chronic pain.

Wordless Wednesday - Mmm...I Don't Have to Head Out In The Rain



Yes, working at home does have it's benefits.

p.s. Don't forget to enter my $30 IHOP gift card giveaway

Whole Foods recalls cheese possibly contaminated with E.coli - KTNV ABC,Channel 13,Las Vegas,Nevada,News,Weather,Sports,Entertainment,KTNV.com,Action News .:.

Whole Foods recalls cheese possibly contaminated with E.coli - KTNV ABC,Channel 13,Las Vegas,Nevada,News,Weather,Sports,Entertainment,KTNV.com,Action News .:.

More food recall news, this time at Whole Foods.

County Declares Emergency as Storm Slams Southern Nevada


County Declares Emergency as Storm Slams Southern Nevada

Rain, rain go away! Yes, we could use some rain in Las Vegas but this is a bit much!

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

They're at a Christmas Party



Charles and I haven't heard from Marcus and Kiana for a couple of days so I decided to give them a call. They've been busy attending various Christmas parties and were actually at one when we called.

I'm glad the kids are having such a great time in Salt Lake City.

Create TV: Public Television's top shows in Cooking, Arts & Crafts, Gardening, Home Improvement and Travel

Create TV: Public Television's top shows in Cooking, Arts & Crafts, Gardening, Home Improvement and Travel

Watching a stained glass panel getting repaired on Create TV .

It's good to know that we don't miss out on cooking, gardening and home decor shows after cancelling cable.

WAH Adventures: Ver-A-Fast -Example of the Importance of Investiga...


WAH Adventures: Ver-A-Fast -Example of the Importance of Investiga...: "Our customer service representatives work from their homes making customer service calls for our newspaper clients. -Verafast.net Ver-A-Fast..."

I appreciate WAH Adventures's posts that address one's working experience.

Remember not all work at home companies get the thumbs up.

Watching The Closer on TNT - Full Online Episodes



Just because you get rid of your cable or satellite doesn't mean you have to miss out on The Closer.

Monday, December 20, 2010

The City of Las Vegas to Close for 1 Week


The City of Las Vegas to Close for 1 Week

More bad economic news for Las Vegas, Nevada. Due to the $47 million shortfall the City of Las Vegas will be closed for a week and employees will start having their hours cut.

Delightful Order: Fireside Coffee Gift Idea

Delightful Order: Fireside Coffee Gift Idea: "Looking for an inexpensive gift idea? Check this one out.It's called Fireside Coffee {and it is so yummy!} I made a few of these for my Boy..."

I'm doing some Menu Plan Monday blog visiting when I came across this terrific diy gift idea!

Menu Plan Monday ~ December 20, 2010


Marcus and Kiana, our teens, are having a great time in Salt Lake City. They're visiting Kiana's dad and family.

Every time we talk to them they comment on the clean air and streets. If you've ever lived in Las Vegas you'll know why they love this change of pace.

They went on a tour of the outside of the Salt Lake Temple. I hope they took lots of photos.

The hubby and I have been enjoying our time too. He took me out for lunch to Wild Buffalo Wings and had breakfast at IHOP. On Sunday, we went to Walmart and did some window shopping.

He's also been putting on the apron and making me dinner. Afterwards, we watch a DVD on Netflix or catch up on a TV series on Hulu. This so reminds me of when we were dating.

Now onto this week's menu plan. Thank you to Organizing Junkie for hosting Menu Plan Mondays. Oh, don't miss out on my $30 IHOP gift card giveaway!

Grilled Chicken, Mixed Green Salad

Shrimp Scampi, Mixed Green Salad

Pizza on Whole Wheat Crust

Steaks, Mixed Green Salad and Baked Potato

Pork Chili with Brown Rice

Nevada Unemployment Rises to 14.3 Percent


Nevada Unemployment Rises to 14.3 Percent

The latest economic news regarding Las Vegas unemployment rate.

Sunday, December 19, 2010

Christmas Service Times at The Church of South Las Vegas


The Church of South Las Vegas, 3051 W. Horizon Ridge Parkway,Henderson, NV 89052
(702) 361-1579

Christmas Eve 5pm and 6:30pm PST Candlelight service

Christmas service 6pm PST

January Angel Food Ministries Menu Available


Red Rock Park in Las Vegas

According to my local distribution location the deadline is January 23, 2011, Saturday, 11:59pm EST for online orders.

Please visit the website for more details.

Window Shopping at Walmart - Couple Time



After breakfast at IHOP Charles and I decided to take a stroll through Walmart. We grabbed a cart and begin our walk through the home decor aisles.

We had fun checking out the variety of cookware sets. I had no idea that they carried Paula Deen. She has a lovely collection of cookware. We really like the Anodized Better Homes and Gardens set. Their pieces have a good weight and look like they'll hold up.

I found some measuring spoons and cups for only 97 cents and knew I had to buy them. Charles found a knife set and block display that he really liked. I decided to keep it in mind for a Just Because gift.

It's fun walking the aisles, chatting with customers and checking out new products. We always have a great time window shopping together.

Are You Mailing Christmas Cards This Year?



For the last 6 years I've participated in Workplace Like Home's Christmas card exchange. Workplace Like Home is an online virtual water cooler for work at home and telecommuters.

It's refreshing to open our mailbox and receive handmade and store bought Christmas cards from around the US.

I also enjoy addressing and mailing our cards. This year I decided to do a photo collage through Snapfish.

Saturday, December 18, 2010

Thursday, December 16, 2010

Prescription Refill Emergency!


Between the drug withdraws and the cold weather I was having great difficulty doing my job. I decided to get my Meloxicam, muscle relaxer, refilled today.

I couldn't wait so the hubby is picking it up. Thanks babe.

Short Hair Care Tips | No More Bad Hair Days: Great Hairstyles Every Day | Real Simple


Short Hair Care Tips | No More Bad Hair Days: Great Hairstyles Every Day | Real Simple

Why not start the New Year with a different hairstyle?

Click on the above link to some cute hairstyles courtesy of Real Simple.

My Newest Hairstyle Courtesy of "T"




I so love my new hair style! I had "T" add some hair for a cute bang. She also colored, styled and did a little trim!

What do you think?

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Volunteering for Overtime - Work at Home


Arthur and DJ will be keeping me company at work!

Since Marcus and Kiana will be gone for 2 weeks I'll be working Christmas Eve and New Year's Eve.

Today's Job Listing at Rat Race Rebellion

Check out today's job listing at Rat Race Rebellion!

Just some of today's jobs:

Part Time Technical Support at TeleTech

RN Case Nurse Consultant at Cigna

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Enter My $30 IHOP Gift Card Blog Giveaway!



Don't forget to leave a comment for a chance to win a $30 IHOP gift card at this post.

Blog followers get an extra chance to win! Just let me know!

On The Road Again! Kiana and Marcus Went to Salt Lake City



Kiana and Marcus went to Salt Lake City, Utah yesterday for Christmas. They're visiting Kiana's dad and family for a couple of weeks.

I must have gotten 4 big hugs out of Marcus!

It's a Pepper Honey! How Does Our Garden Grow?


Charles needed something to keep the tomato plant growing tall so he found an old curtain rod.


Looks like the yellow pepper is finally sprouting!

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