Thursday, December 27, 2012

It Doesn't Take A Rock Scientist to Navigate This Thing Called Marriage

Today's About.com Marriage newsletter shared a quote from "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work" by John M. Gottman that I like so much I just had to share.

"What can make a marriage work is surprisingly simple. Happily married couples aren't smarter, richer, or more psychologically astute than others. But in their day-to-day lives, they have hit upon a dynamic that keeps their negative thoughts and feelings about each other (which all couples have) from overwhelming their positive ones. They have what I call an emotionally intelligent marriage."

Source: google.com via Alyssa on Pinterest

the adorable married couple from "Up"

Here's another quote from the book that I love! "The key to a happy marriage is becoming friends. The more you work at being friends, the easier it will be to solve problems as they arise. Marriage isn't devoid of conflict; it isn't simply a matter of communicating more. instead, it is a matter of learning how to disagree and still be friends". (taken from the book The Seven Principles For Making Marriage Work by John M. Gottman PH.D.).

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